The Risk of Narrative Worship

It takes a thousand voices to tell a single story. Nothing in human history has had the sheer energy and transformative reach of story. Since people could sit around a fire, the common will was found through epic song, narrative, myth. As we emerge from the limited power of reasoning, religious separatism, personal autonomy it would seem that we are rediscovering this: this impulse to find our meaning in Story.

I’m a wanna-be anthropologist and historian. Even my kids are nerding out on the History Channel and National Geographic these days. Maybe we should do a little less of it, but for now, it’s “family time.” There is some learning that takes place, and, if there’s any lesson to be found in the long history of humankind it’s our collective value around – even need for – Story. Each culture, each people, each era has used Story to preserve their identity, instill values, provoke the communal imagination, embrace the unseen they believed to exist around them.

Inside Christian history, the role of story can’t be under-estimated. The gospel is rooted in and spread by the Story of a GOD who is relentless and reckless in the loving pursuit of humankind. This shows up in our language, in our traditions, in our own practices of spiritual formation. The mass itself is a “little story,” the passion of Christ retold in symbol and ritual; a narrative you can touch, taste, and smell.

The nuclear power of story seems to be built into our own atomic essence. The American writer Muriel Rukeyser said that “the universe is made of stories, not of atoms.” No doubt the psalmists knew this as well. This narrative language comes pre-loaded in the human operating system that rises above culture, time, economic development. When the powers that be want more control, they bribe the narrators or squash them altogether. It’s always been this way; we just see it more candidly now. Why are the story-tellers so dangerous? Because they know how to take the content that matters, that speaks to the soul and contextualize it for their people to take in the experience.

When planning a worship gathering, the default procedure is to think about how it will work. I get this. I’m hardly pragmatic in most areas of my life, but I love a good sense of flow and transition; focusing on the how appeals to that part of me. In my best moments, I try to forget I’m a worship “leader” and remind myself that I am a story-teller. A narrator. And as such, I have the responsibility of beautifully and honestly shaping our collective narrative into something that invites participation in something bigger.

In order to do this, it’s imperative that we can articulate the difference between content and context.

Content is the stuff that shapes, convicts, disciples us. Context is the vehicle that gets it from our heads to our hearts, or very often in the case of some of contemporary Christian worship, the other way around. Or to put it another way, context is the means by which our souls are opened to the content.

When we think of the worship gathering as a narrative, it changes how we approach our content – giving more accountability – but frames how we interpret it for our context – giving us more freedom. As much as I believe that there isn’t one right way to worship, I do believe, fiercely, that there is a wrong way: any way that denies our shared human story with GOD. When I encounter churches who only consider singing about the Jesus sitting next to you a complete time of worship, or who think that being “creative” means re-inventing the wheel instead of re-contextualizing the traditions of our shared faith, or who opt out of a regular sharing of Eucharist, or who perpetuate individualistic or therapeutic experiences, I have to wonder: which story are they telling?

But when we take The Story – the mysterious narrative of GOD and humankind and creation – and put it into the dangerous hands of the artists, poets, mystics, it takes on an energy, even quite literally, and starts to hit at those uncomfortable, unnameable places. The places where Divine encounter leads us to spiritual formation.

What would you do differently if you perceived yourself as Story-teller instead of worship leader? How does this affect your content and your interpretation for your context? Which story are you willing to tell in your worship gathering?

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Children’s Church: Part Two

This post is a continuation of last week’s post by Anastasia McAteer.

Last week I wrote about why we should be curating worship with children in mind, and welcoming them into every aspect of church life – especially our primary worship services. Although their tendency is to behave in ways we do not traditionally find “acceptable” in church, I argued that they actually have many things to teach us about relating to God.

In this post, I will offer some practical suggestions for how to curate worship from – and for – a child’s perspective.

The first thing you have to do is get the parents on board. Many parents – myself included – really enjoy a blissful hour away from the responsibilities and distractions of their kids. By suggesting children be fully incorporated into worship I am not suggesting we make things harder for their parents. Instead, this is an opportunity for the church family to be exactly that: a family to these little ones. Every adult in that sanctuary should be watching out for them, helping them participate, handing them something to play with or making sure they are following what’s going on. Parents should be so secure in their church family’s love for their children – in the covenant that the congregation has made to that child when she or he was baptized – that they can let the village raise their little Christian.

Once parents are willing to bring their kids into the service – knowing that it’s a congregational effort to ensure their engagement (not make sure they “behave”) – it’s up to the worship leaders to make changes so that children are welcomed and embraced by the liturgy. No amount of friendly uncles and aunties will make a difference if the worship itself is out of children’s reach.

It’s not actually very hard: worship should be playful, after all; and why can’t it be messy? We are told to make a joyful noise unto the Lord – who better to teach us how than a toddler? I daresay that if we geared our worship more towards children, the rest of us would have a better time as well.

Here are a few concrete ideas for better involving children in a worship service:

Movement: There are few things more painful to a child – and, frankly, many adults – than being forced to sit still for an hour or more. People should move during worship. At the very least, there should be standing, sitting, maybe some kneeling thrown in here and there. I’ve attended churches that incorporated processions and even group dancing. And you know what? It’s fun and it sure keeps you interested! Another great way to get people moving is to use station-based worship. It doesn’t work in every space, but going from place to place has a rich historical basis for Christian worship, and our bodies’ movement signals our brains to refresh for the next activity.

Music: You may not realize that the music in many churches is just too darn loud for little ears (they are fresh and new, after all). So turn those amps down a few notches. There are many wonderful ways to have children participate in music: for instance, invite them up to play an instrument (even a preschooler can bang a tambourine). This may require letting go of preconceived notions about the “quality” of your music… but that might be a lesson God wants to teach you.

Preaching: Shoot for sermons no longer than 10-15 minutes. Long teaching monologues belong in Sunday School or bible study, not in worship. The point of a worship service (sorry preachers) is not to hear your thoughts. It’s to hear God’s – which you can hear in a sermon, but equally through Scripture readings, music, and actions, especially Eucharist. Remember that the length you allot to any activity in worship necessarily bespeaks the importance you place on it – and, consequently, the importance your congregation will believe God places on it.

Also sermons do not need to be “dumbed down,” but it’s already established that writing for popular audiences should be at a jr. high level. So preaching should be comprehensible to your 7th and 8th grade audience, which will consequently make it enjoyable to many older people as well.

Space: If the worship space is stark (whether in the light or the dark), cheer it up a bit. Unless it’s a penitential season, there’s not much reason we shouldn’t be living in the resurrection joy of Jesus week after week. Colorful fabrics in banners, garments, linens – even parasols – catch the eye and lift the spirit. Icons and even murals (or projected images if you desire something less permanent) are engaging and can teach or be foci for prayer.

Another important consideration in your space is where you encourage children to sit. Oftentimes parents feel like they should be in the back of the church so they can beat a hasty exit if their little one is disruptive. Once it is made clear that such age-appropriate behavior isn’t a problem, parents should be welcomed to bring their children to the front. This is firstly practical: We often forget how hard it is to see when you’re little! (my daughter always kneels on the kneeler for confession, then calls out, “I can’t see!” really loudly) But it is also instructive (my husband always holds her up so she can see, and whispers explanations to her about everything that’s happening), and a very clear statement of the church’s value of children. Being up front will help the kids themselves pay attention, for they will see better, hear better, understand better, and want to be where they are obviously wanted.

Community: Children smile a lot. And they love to touch and be touched. So for heaven’s sake, let the love of God shine through your face, and give lots of hugs!!

And a personal request: please let women nurse infants in your church service, not closeted away somewhere (unless they so choose). It is wonderful, as a new mother, to be told you are welcome to stay in worship and be shown to a comfortable rocking chair where you won’t miss anything. I can tell you also, from personal experience, that it is deeply profound to nourish a baby from your own body whilst you are being nourished by the Body of Christ. If others find this distracting (or, sadly, offensive), suggest they imagine Mary breastfeeding the infant Christ, and hopefully that will pull all minds out of the gutter.

A final story: once when I took my crying infant to the nursery, I found the rector (senior pastor) sitting in there reading to the children. Surprised, I asked if someone hadn’t shown up to work; he replied, “Nope. Sometimes I just prefer to be in here.”

As a parent, that told me everything I needed to know about that church’s commitment to children. Imagine sending your spiritual leader to change diapers and kiss boo-boos. Can’t see it? Read Mark 10 and try again. Nobody is more important in the kingdom of God than children. Jesus says so. It’s about time we listened.

© Anastasia McAteer
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Anastasia McAteer is a full-time mom and freelance writer/liturgical consultant. She holds a Master of Divinity with a concentration in Worship, Theology and the Arts from Fuller Theological Seminary, and has done doctoral work in Liturgical Studies at the Graduate Theological Union, Berkeley. Stasi has published a reader’s theater version of the Book of Revelation, and the essay “Exorcising the Spirit” in Jesus Girls: True Tales of Growing Up Female and Evangelical (Cascade Books, 2009). She also authored the popular blog Feminary while at Fuller. Stasi and her husband, John, co-curated the forthcoming Lent Collection for Clayfire. Her children, Maggie and Kieran, help her fulfill her priestly calling on a daily basis.

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Someone Said

First and foremost, we must talk about things that matter in our Christian gatherings. We must create opportunities for conversation across generational experiences, for storytelling and name recognition. Community is a bankrupt concept if the exchanging of ideas, dreams, hopes, and promise is held only within one segment of the people. There is no community without communication, appreciation, and understanding. True community engages and welcomes a variety of perspectives. It brings dissenters to the table and includes them in the conversation, rather than making outcasts of them. People with whom we disagree may have the word that moves us to the next painful but necessary step of being how Christ calls us to be. It is hard to test the spirit of someone with whom we have no relationship; it is impossible to listen to the wisdom or pain of someone whose voice we have refused to hear.

Wanda Kidd, “Give Us Ears to Hear,” Baptimergent, 67

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Someone Said

If God’s chosen medium was Christ, and the church is the body of Christ, then the church is God’s chosen medium for God’s ongoing revelation to the world; the church exists to embody and proclaim the good news of God’s kingdom. If the medium is the message, the message of the gospel is profoundly shaped by the way the church lives in the world.

We are the message—in all our hypocrisy and injustice, in all our giftedness and hope, in all our brokenness and bitterness, in all our faith and love. This is one of the great mysteries of God; why would God choose such a frail and inconsistent medium to embody God’s abiding message? Perhaps God’s message of redemption and reconciliation is carried by bent and bruised hearts to show God’s stunning power to reach through human failure, sin, and sadness to bring about new life.

Shane Hipps, The Hidden Power of Electronic Culture: How Media Shapes Faith, the Gospel, and Church, 92

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Someone Said

Whereas we can speak literally to one another of the tenets of our belief, how can we relate what a relationship with our Creator or with Jesus Christ can mean to us? How can we speak of the joy of salvation, one’s gratitude for grace, a sense of wonder at the incarnation one’s guilt over being sinful, the shame of the crucifixion, or the peace that passes all understanding? And how can we speak of life’s circumstances as they are experienced within and addressed by faith in Christ: the death of a parent, the birth of a child, the dawning of spring, the discovery of an illness, or the association of friends? Further, how can we speak to God in public prayer of a worshiping assembly’s heartfelt needs? How can we put into words their fears, longings, gladness, remorse, pain, or praise? Sometimes words fail us and we are left to rely on the Spirit who intercedes for us with sighs too deep for words… But, as preachers and worship leaders, we need to speak and pray publicly. And we need to express ourselves in such a way that others are moved by our speech or drawn to prayer and praise along with us.

Clayton J. Schmit, Too Deep for Words: A Theology of Liturgical Expression, 6-7

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